Dear Spirit
This week we are going to take a look at the people around you and how
they are helping or hurting you and if it is time to let them go.
Many times we hold on to relationships and friendships, When it time to
let go of them. Not only because they are hurting you, Also that they
are not helping you to grow. Yes it is hard to handle emotions of
friendships and relationships and to see they are hurting you, But
there's no reason to be letting them hold you back, From what you need
in your life. But many times when you carry these friends around with
you. You no longer enjoy the things you do with them and it hurts you
more then helps you. Many times it helps' to look at it , To decide, Are
they truly your friend in the real meaning of the word .
Many times it hard to see when it's time to let go of friendships. Many
times you are holding on to the memory and thoughts of a friend then
the real person that has now changed and grown into some else that not
longer has that light in them..
Here is some things to look at when looking at relationships and
friendships in your life.
1 What are you getting out of the relationship? How does it benefit you.
Yes this may sound greedy, But you should be about to find one thing
,Even if it is something like someone to talk to.
2 Do you end up giving more then getting in the relationship or
friendship? Not all friendships are 50 /50 but it should be something.
3 Are they fair weather friends that only want to share the good times
and not the bad?
4 Do you only hear from them when they need something but when it comes
to you?
You can not find them in three states.
5 They put you down or talk bad about you to others, In front of you or
behind your back and share those secrets, Only friends should share
together and not spread all over the town.
6 You find them to be co dependent on you. Wanting to let you be the
drive in their life this friend can be very tricky to handle.
If you asked yes to three of them. Then its time to let that
relationship go.
The best drama free way of doing this is to set down and write a letter
to them, Throw emails or throw normal old mail listing your feeling and
tell them good bye. This in the end will benefit you and them, To see
how they are acting and how things would have build up on you. Many time
people hang on to things, When it not no longer this includes' friends
and relationships. Even thou , in your heart, know they're are not true
friends. This can greatly affect how you feel about yourself and how you
can really look at relationships. Your only hurting yourself when you
keep holding on to them. Letting them effect you and your life.
Just something to think about
Love and light
Aeson
Dear Spirit
This week we are going to take a look at the people around you and how
they are helping or hurting you and if it is time to let them go.
Many times we hold on to relationships and friendships, When it time to
let go of them. Not only because they are hurting you, Also that they
are not helping you to grow. Yes it is hard to handle emotions of
friendships and relationships and to see they are hurting you, But
there's no reason to be letting them hold you back, From what you need
in your life. But many times when you carry these friends around with
you. You no longer enjoy the things you do with them and it hurts you
more then helps you. Many times it helps' to look at it , To decide, Are
they truly your friend in the real meaning of the word .
Many times it hard to see when it's time to let go of friendships. Many
times you are holding on to the memory and thoughts of a friend then
the real person that has now changed and grown into some else that not
longer has that light in them..
Here is some things to look at when looking at relationships and
friendships in your life.
1 What are you getting out of the relationship? How does it benefit you.
Yes this may sound greedy, But you should be about to find one thing
,Even if it is something like someone to talk to.
2 Do you end up giving more then getting in the relationship or
friendship? Not all friendships are 50 /50 but it should be something.
3 Are they fair weather friends that only want to share the good times
and not the bad?
4 Do you only hear from them when they need something but when it comes
to you?
You can not find them in three states.
5 They put you down or talk bad about you to others, In front of you or
behind your back and share those secrets, Only friends should share
together and not spread all over the town.
6 You find them to be co dependent on you. Wanting to let you be the
drive in their life this friend can be very tricky to handle.
If you asked yes to three of them. Then its time to let that
relationship go.
The best drama free way of doing this is to set down and write a letter
to them, Throw emails or throw normal old mail listing your feeling and
tell them good bye. This in the end will benefit you and them, To see
how they are acting and how things would have build up on you. Many time
people hang on to things, When it not no longer this includes' friends
and relationships. Even thou , in your heart, know they're are not true
friends. This can greatly affect how you feel about yourself and how you
can really look at relationships. Your only hurting yourself when you
keep holding on to them. Letting them effect you and your life.
Just something to think about
Love and light
Aeson