If a guy pretended to be someone else just to get your attention cause he thought being himself wouldn't catch your eye, how would that make you feel? How would you go about solving that problem?


Well, I know that some people pretend to act cooler, or more noticeable, to get someone’s attention, but I have seen people go a lot further than that. I had a guy one time I had met over the internet who ya know sent me his pictures and everything, and he was really cute. We never got the chance to meet yet but I knew something wasn't quite right with him. Finally after some badgering I found out that those pictures were fake and he looked not at all like the pictures he had sent me.

People don't realize that hurts people. They think this is all some sort of game, maybe they don't put any emotional involvement towards it, but maybe some of us do. If someone did that to me of course I would confront them, at least humor myself by listening to whatever explanation they had for doing it. You gotta think though, if they do something like this, something that didn't even deserve to be lied about...what else are they going to lie about?

I would tell them that I couldn't trust them, especially if I had full trust in them beforehand. Sorry, but even if he did it because he thought being himself wouldn't catch my eye, I still wouldn't be any less upset. I find it hard to believe that "not catching my eye" is the only reason he did it. Some people like to play games like this with other people, and it is so very easily done of the internet. Which is why I stopped trying to find Mr. Right, or meeting people over the internet. I just VERY recently had a guy who did the same thing to me.

It gets old and repetitious after a while and you just don't even feel like trying anymore. The thing is to keep trying and looking, because people that deceive you upon first meeting you for whatever reason in my book is not worth keeping; they have identity issues, which if caught can lead to trust issues and so on and so on.

If you think you can trust someone that deceives you like that then more power to you, but I know I couldn't. If you think it can be fixed go for it; otherwise I'd say keep looking because as I said earlier, if someone can lie about something so insignificant as who he is!?!?. It is only a matter of time before the little ones turn into big lies.